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"Good Boundaries and Goodbyes" by Lysa TerKeurst is a deeply empathetic and practical guide for anyone struggling with the tension between loving others protecting their own peace

Conclusion

  1. Identify the Gray Zone: What relationship feels exhausting right now? Where is the confusion?
  2. Check your "Hope Meter": Are you staying because of who they are or who you hope they become?
  3. Write your Boundary Statement: "If you ______, then I will ______."
  4. The Eulogy Test: If this person died tomorrow, would you regret the boundary or regret the goodbye? (Regret is not a reason to stay, but it is a clue.)

Introduction

"Good Boundaries and Goodbyes" by Lysa TerKeurst is a deeply empathetic and practical guide for anyone struggling with the tension between loving others protecting their own peace

Conclusion

  1. Identify the Gray Zone: What relationship feels exhausting right now? Where is the confusion?
  2. Check your "Hope Meter": Are you staying because of who they are or who you hope they become?
  3. Write your Boundary Statement: "If you ______, then I will ______."
  4. The Eulogy Test: If this person died tomorrow, would you regret the boundary or regret the goodbye? (Regret is not a reason to stay, but it is a clue.)

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